Jun 18, 2016

Close to you I've been.....

Saurabh Chawla | 4 Comments|


Close to you I've been
Like a shadow
Even in the darkness
Have you not yet seen?

Living in silence since
The pitch black night
Lost somewhere in the memory
The black hole had it all winced

Laying your burden down
To stop the long loathing
Preventing the insanity 
That led you to frown

Lighting down your way
Through the emptiness
And the bruised skies
Under which you lay

Close to you I've been 
Like a shadow 
Even in the darkness
Have you not yet seen?

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Jun 11, 2016

Are you tired of this?

Saurabh Chawla | | | 0 Comments|


Dale Carnegie quotes about judgement


It often happens that our tolerance levels are surpassed by the actions of the people around us. I don't generally get annoyed quickly but sometimes, it is just not that easy to stay quiet in several circumstances. I come across people with multiple personalities per day. Some of them are tolerable to a limit, some are not at all tolerable.

Following are few of the people who are not at all tolerable:

1) Who pass comments without knowledge

This is the most common type of the people out there.They just want to interfere in every step you take. The can be ignored, but when the water goes above the neck, you would wnt to kick them off!

2) The insecure

I recently observed a couple while traveling to office. They held each other so tight that they would not let each other even see other people. The sarcasm about the situation was that the guy was looking at another beautiful girl and the girl was busy staring some other guy who appeared more cool than her so called boyfriend or fiance.


The insecurity does not lead anywhere.

3) The jealous

Jealousy and insecurity go hand in hand. But wait, jealousy is found in women more as compared to men. Jealousy from the other person because he or she is lucky, from the fact that he or she is rich etc. There can be several reasons for ths emotion to come up.

Jealousy, just like the insecurity does not lead anywhere. The jealous people should try to move ahead than worrying about why or how the other person is ahead of them.

4) The fake

These kind of people try to be the one they are absolutely not. They lie about everything. They want to prove to other people that they are superior than who they actually are. They buy expensive things just to prove that they are rich.  An important thing is that they tell different story to different people which makes it very easy to catch their lie.

I am sure that these kind of personalities are also a part of your lives too! The point is not to be judgemental about anybody.

“Even god doesn't propose to judge a man till his last days, why should you and I?”
 
                                                                       ― Dale Carnegie 
Does these kind of people annoy you too? Let me know in the comments section below.

Jun 5, 2016

Clear the path, heading to your goals straightaway.

Saurabh Chawla | | 0 Comments|
Recently we published How to set your goals and actually achieve them.  We normally have a perception in mind that we will set a goal, will reach it somehow hassle free. Initially it seems relatively easy and we start progressing as well but at some point we get drained out and leave it in between.
We have to understand that one has to go through obstacles to reach that goal. Well there is no fun also achieving something with that much ease. That's why goals are made. To feel enthralled, enthusiastic that you have achieved them. Obstacles, if one perceives can hold you back while for other can be like a stepping stone, a step closer to the goal. Which perception you face while accomplishing that goal?
Below are some of the steps which if you follow, will help you in overcoming those obstacles:
1) Start by setting smaller goals first:
Setting goals and accomplishing them is somewhat a new change you incorporate in your life. The mistake most people do is to set long term complicated goals and try to achieve them in short time. The result, they give up very early. Try to make smaller goals and accomplishing them before moving on to bigger goals. This way you would be prepared to focus more and there would be less chances of slip ups.
2) Manage your time well:
Many times it happens that we fail to schedule our activities at a proper time making it difficult for ourselves. The main thing is to make a proper schedule of all the activities that are needed to be done to accomplish that goal. the best part is proper time management.
3) Change negative thoughts to positive ones:
Whenever a negative emotion takes over, try not to get affected.  Instead try to divert your mind by taking sometime off. It will let you relieve from insecurity.
Have it helped you in overcoming your obstacles? Do let us know in the comments section below.
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