Nov 29, 2015

How your attitude can help you?

Saurabh Chawla | | 2 Comments|
Many a times we come across the situations which make us feel low. We often lose confidence on facing certain situations which make us believe that we can't do the things.It is sometimes forced on us by our peers, friends, relatives, colleagues etc. that if we fail in certain task or we are weak at a particular skill, we can't do anything about it. It's a part of everybody's life. Now certain people fall as victims to the circumstances while others pave their way out across.
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What makes these people different? The way of doing things is different to some extent but the most important thing is their positive attitude. The belief with which these people approach the situation is different. They follow their inner guidance system which keeps them constantly reminding about their goals, their dreams and most importantly, they can achieve them.
We bring to you today some advantages which positive attitude has as opposed to negative attitude:
1. Positive attitude motivates
If a person has an attitude that 'yes, my dreams are possible and I will accomplish them' whereas a negative attitude person will be like 'OMG! I have failed. It's not my cup of tea!' Whom according to you would be accomplishing his dreams? Probability is higher in the former one.
Having a positive attitude gives enough confidence and belief of doing what one aims at doing.It provides a boost to the motivation enabling the person to achieve what he wants to achieve. Negative attitude, on the other hand makes one a victim of other people's saying and keeps them away from achieving what they want to achieve.
2. It provides a path to the lost by giving a purpose
Consider a situation when a person is lost. He/she is not clear of what he/she wants out of life. Once that person knows his/her purpose of life and keeps a positive attitude towards the purpose, he/she has higher probability of achieving that purpose in life.
It will not only help the person to provide a path in life but also will teach how to deal with failure along the journey. We all fail at some point in time. Failure is taken as a depressing factor by many forcing them to lose interest and move on to some other thing and the moment the failure strikes again, that path is also changed. This process keeps on repeating.
Failure should be taken as a learning, an experience not as a burden. It marks a point that went wrong. Moreover the attitude towards failure should be that it will make you stronger. Consider a person who has faced many failures in life but still stays strong whereas the other one who has faced few and kept on changing the paths? The former one would be more positive about himself/herself as compared to latter one.
It gives a direction to life where one has to go on and on to achieve that purpose in life.
3. Improves self-image
This is something which is self-explanatory. Consider when you get closer to your dream, you keep on assuring yourself about the winning the different milestones along the path. It not only improves self-confidence but self-esteem as well. Not only you congratulate yourself on the big win but people when start noticing the big change, they also start respecting you for what you are.
Here, experience comes into picture as it keeps you on the ground and helps you in taking the right steps. There is no teacher best than experience in your life. The best thing about the experience is that it is different for every individual.  You make a promise to yourself and when you complete that promise, your self-esteem is boosted.
A small activity for you all at the end. Next time when you are in a tough situation, try keeping a positive attitude towards it.
Do share what you felt by adopting this easy change in your life in the comments section below. Thanks for reading and happy new year to you all!
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Nov 24, 2015

Overcoming the Writer's Block

Saurabh Chawla | | 2 Comments|
Writer's block is something which everybody has to face or faced in their writing part of their lives. The reasons are several. Lack of ideas, saturation of mind with too many ideas, lack f energy to write etc. So how does one overcome with Writer's block? I am going to list down my tips what I do to overcome this.
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1) Take a break:
If you feel that you are getting short of ideas or confused about the thing that you are short of knowledge about that particular topic you intend to write about, take a break simply. Stay away from writing for a day or two or till you are genuinely willing to write. In these days, read a lot about the topic you intend to write. This will increase your knowledge and on the other hand will also clear your doubts or confusions you might be having about the subject.  You can also watch movies and listen to music o get a deeper insight about the subject.
2) Break barriers:
Sometimes, reading about the subject is also tedious task. It may seem boring sometimes. That time what should one do? I prefer staying away from topic all together. I stay away from discussing it, watching movies based on it, listening music based on that theme etc. It helps me to keep my mind free from unnecessary tension, worry, stress for some time. Till that time I do what I feel great about. This helps me refuel my energy and I am ready to think about that troublesome topic  again. It sometimes helps to break barriers.

3) Go out:
Sometimes, trouble creeps in when we keep sitting in one room for a long time. It encapsulates us as well as our mind too. It is always better to go out from time to time so that you can observe, research, get social, broaden your mind at the same time. When you go on a walk in the park or go out to play a sport like tennis, badminton etc. you develop focusing skills. This way when you return back to write, you are more focused about the subject's study.

4) Forget about it completely:
Writer's block is nothing but a smoke clouding our mind and the worst part is that it is developed by us only. If you feel like you are not aware about any subject or have doubts about it, simply forget about writing about it and start researching and gathering knowledge about it. It can take a week, a month or a year depending about how much time you are dedicating to it. But sit to write about it only when you are fully confident about it.
I almost am refueled when I follow these tips. I let my mind to wander all possible places where it can reach to assimilate the knowledge. But gaining the knowledge is not all. I sit, relax myself and interpret all the information collected and summarize the information in a way which is understandable by me. This way I am able to overcome the writer's block in me.
What you do to overcome your writer's block? Do let us know in the comments section below.

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Nov 18, 2015

All we need is nothing but direction!

Saurabh Chawla | | 0 Comments|

all we need is direction in life poem by saurabh chawla

Remembering the blowing winds
Watching the shadow on the sun
The darkness that only blinds
I have no intention of a pun

Want to open the locked doors
Give my mind some room to breathe
Running on the infinite floors
It's too tired to seethe!

Absorbing the energies
To satisfy my deep hunger
The harmonization of synergies
Love the feeling of being younger

Free from all sorts of obstruction
I must say that its a well played card
Deeper love, unavoidable seduction
Repairing that has been marred!

During the beginning, during the cessation
Whether it's hate or a feeling of affection
Everything turns out to be a revelation
All we need is nothing but direction!

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